Connecting with Jesus as an ESTP: The Four Who Went Through the Roof

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If you're an ESTP, sitting still is the hard part of following Jesus and doing something about it is the easy part. Most devotional advice is written for the other kind of person. Here's a passage written for yours.

They Took the Roof Apart

Jesus is back in Capernaum and the house is full. Mark says there was no room left, "not even outside the door" (Mark 2:2). So picture the scene from the street. You can't get in. You can't see in. And you're carrying a friend who can't walk.

Four men are carrying him. They can't get through the crowd, so they get on the roof, dig a hole in it, and lower the man down on his mat into the room where Jesus is teaching.

Sit with what that actually involved. This is somebody's house. They are destroying a section of the roof of a home they don't own, in the middle of a meeting, in front of a crowd, with no permission and no plan for the repair. It's the kind of thing that gets you talked about for a year.

And here is Mark's next line: "When Jesus saw their faith, he said to the paralyzed man, 'Son, your sins are forgiven'" (Mark 2:5). Their faith. Jesus doesn't read their faith off a prayer or a statement of belief. He reads it off a hole in the ceiling.

Faith Is Something You Did

So faith, in this passage, is a thing you can watch happen. Four men decided their friend was getting in front of Jesus that day, and the obstacle changed the method rather than the decision.

That is worth knowing if you have ever felt like a second-rate Christian for not enjoying quiet time. You will meet people whose faith looks like an hour of stillness, and that's real. What Mark 2 says is that yours can look like a shoulder against a problem, and Jesus counts it.

So aim it. Faith that acts is only useful when it's pointed at something. Who's the friend you'd carry? What's the situation everybody agrees is sad and nobody has done anything about? Pick that up this week, and let doing it be the prayer.

The Part You'll Want to Skip

Now the harder half, and you already know what it is. Present-focused, fast-moving people tend to skip the parts that pay off later, and in the Christian life those parts are scripture, prayer, and the same people over time.

Watch what the four men do when they reach the room. Nothing. They lower the mat and the passage stops describing them. The rest of the chapter is Jesus talking, teachers of the law objecting, and a long exchange about who can forgive sins. The men who did the exciting part had to stand there and listen to a theological argument.

That's your assignment too. Stay in the room after the action. Ten minutes in a Gospel every morning does more for you over a year than a burst of enthusiasm does in a weekend, and it will feel slower than everything else you do. Boredom in prayer is not a sign you're doing it wrong or that this isn't for you. It's the price of the part that lasts.

Risk Is Not the Same as Obedience

One more thing about how you're wired. You're comfortable with risk, which is a gift, and over time risk can turn into its own reason. There's a difference between a risk God asked for and a risk that was just available, and both feel alive from the inside.

The four men were not being reckless for its own sake. There was a paralyzed friend, a closed door, and a decision that he was getting in anyway. The risk served a person.

So run new plans past somebody who will tell you no. If the plan only works when everyone moves right now and nobody thinks it over, that urgency is worth a second look. God is not in a hurry the way you are.

Who Else Moved First

Search results will happily tell you which Bible figures were ESTPs. They weren't, because scripture never assigns types. The pattern is all over it, though.

The four friends solve the problem with their hands. Peter is out of the boat while the others are still deciding. David runs at Goliath rather than waiting for the champion to come to him. Jehu is recognized from a distance by how he drives. And Paul, after his conversion, is in the synagogue preaching within days, before anybody thought he was ready.

Do the Thing This Week

Do the thing this week rather than planning it. Name the one person you'd carry and go carry something for them. Read ten minutes of a Gospel every morning and stay in it on the days it's dull. Run the next big idea past somebody with permission to say no. And when the room gets slow after the action, stay in it, because that's where Jesus is still talking.

Four men wrecked a roof to get their friend in front of Jesus, and scripture calls it faith. Whatever you're built to do, do that.

Frequently asked questions

What are the key traits of an ESTP personality type?

The ESTP personality type, often referred to as the "Entrepreneur," is characterized by extraversion, sensing, thinking, and perceiving traits. ESTPs are known for their energetic, pragmatic, and action-oriented approach to life. They are adept problem-solvers, often using their keen observational skills and logical thinking to handle challenges. ESTPs are also very sociable, enjoying lively interactions and experiences.

What careers are typically suitable for ESTPs?

ESTPs thrive in dynamic, fast-paced careers that involve practical problem-solving and direct interaction with people. They might excel in roles such as marketing, sales, entrepreneurship, or emergency services. ESTPs can also be successful in hands-on professions like mechanics or engineering, where their logical and pragmatic approach to problem-solving is highly valuable.

How do ESTPs behave in relationships?

In relationships, ESTPs are often enthusiastic, energetic, and fun-loving. They value living in the present moment and enjoy sharing exciting experiences with their partners. ESTPs are usually straightforward and direct in their communication, and they appreciate the same honesty in return. However, they might struggle with long-term commitments and emotional depth, as they naturally focus more on the here-and-now.